I am 20-years-old and I am three months pregnant. My problem is I have been dating three men at the same time and I don’t know who is responsible. Should I just go for the weakest link among them? – Tari-babe
Dear Tari-babe
I really am disappointed in you. You have been grossly irresponsible and I am short of words of advice. Going for “the weakest link” among them will not only be unfair to that man if he is not the father, but for the unborn child as well. You will have to find out who the father is (work out your dates very carefully once you have seen the doctor) before confronting him. Do this for the sake of your child’s future. Promise yourself to be more responsible and make 2013 all about being a better person. – Aunty Lisa