I am a young man aged 25 and I regret having so many girlfriends recently. The problem I am faced with right now is of three women who claim I am responsible for their pregnancy. I believe them but how can I take care of three women and three kids at the same time without a sustainable job? I am so stressed and sometimes think of taking my life. Please help me. – Triply Troubled
Dear Triply Troubled
First of all I respect you for acknowledging that you are responsible for the three pregnancies, some men of your age would be busy thinking of ways of how they can deny it.
I admit you are really faced with a big responsibility but taking your life is not the solution. It’s normal to worry and wonder what people will say about you after making a mistake in life, but don’t let people dictate how you live your life.
You have to accept the situation and take responsibility for your actions. That will be standing up and being a man and people will eventually respect you for that. It will not necessarily mean that you have to marry all three women but you need to take care of your kids – and be a father to them. Your time and your love are priceless and yet will not cost you much to give them.
Keep your job, whatever you are earning from it is better than none at all. Look for other part time jobs to increase your income and remember to live within your means. Good Luck! – Aunty Lisa
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