Since my wife got pregnant three months ago we have become enemies. She is always being rude to me and sometimes I even wonder if she still loves me. When I am away at work during the day she misses me a lot. She keeps sending me messages and gives me the impression that she cannot wait to see me. But once I am there she acts as if she can’t wait for me to be away. Sometimes it makes me think she would have misdirected the message meant for another man to me. Is my once loving wife cheating on me? Is there a chance that this pregnancy may not be mine? – Givy
Dear Givy
You are reading too much in these signs dear. I don’t think it is as serious as you are making it. It is very possible that your wife has suddenly changed because of the pregnancy. It is funny how women go through different physical, emotional and sometimes psychological changes when they fall pregnant.
A sense of dislike towards some innocent people can be one of these changes, while some pregnant women may be easily annoyed by the way other people talk, laugh or walk. Others may be on the other end where they will be fascinated by such characteristics by other people. This is because of the changes in hormones in their bodies as a result of the pregnancy. Do not doubt her at this important time in your lives.
Your wife’s behaviour is not even strange for a pregnant woman. Please try to be patient with her. You are likely to see a number of changes in her that includes being weak emotionally. Understand her when she cries easily over some petty issues – to her it’s serious!
As much as she may seem difficult to associate with, just remember that she needs your support all the way. She may not be in a position to appreciate you at the moment but your support is important and she will not suffer amnesia when she gives birth –she will remember it all. – Aunty Lisa
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