I was really disappointed by my girlfriend who never gave me a Christmas gift (I gave her one). January 2 was her birthday and I didn’t get her a gift. I explained to her that I had no money and will make it up to her on Valentine’s day but she tells me that it is a separate day that needs its own presents. I thought she would understand since I bought her an expensive Christmas gift and spent so much money with her during the festive season. Is she really my Mrs Right? – D.M
Dear D.M
Your girlfriend sounds like she is in this relationship just to make sure that she gets a gift at every turn. She sounds like a gold digger to me. Love should be complimented by gifts – it should not be about them. If she loves you with all her heart she should really understand. You need not splash your money away on such a girl, I feel she is the type that will dump you when you are broke.
I am not aware of the person you consider your ideal wife. But from your story it appears to me you are disappointed with her and she will be the kind of wife who will be mad at you for failing, when what you really need is a shoulder to cry on and a pat on the back to say well done for trying. You need to decide whether you feel there is love for you in her. You need to be both in love unconditionally to say we are in a healthy relationship. Make 2013 a year to commit yourself to someone who is also committed to you. – Aunty Lisa
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