My wife is always moody, she complains that I don’t care about her and I don’t love her. We have a six-month-old son together and I have to work hard for them. I am always working late to make sure that I earn more money for them but she does not seem to appreciate that. I get the feeling she prefers I stay home with her all the time. But one of us has to work. She suspects me of cheating yet I have been faithful to her since the day I met her, besides its not like me to have an affair. Why can’t she appreciate how hard I’m working for our family? – Flex
Dear Flex
Your wife seems to be missing you a lot. As much as you need to work hard for your family it appears you are doing it too much and forgetting that your family needs to spend some time with you. Explain to her that you need to work extra hours to get more money for her and your baby, but you also need to make effort to spend some quality time with her.
The reason she suspects you are cheating may be because of her frustration of missing you and she wonders why you don’t seem to feel the need for quality time with her. She needs your love and attention. You will be surprised how she will change to be a happy woman if you just give her that. Sometimes married women tend to be moody and sad because they will be yearning for some affection from their partners. Loving and caring for them can unlock happiness, tenderness and the good sense of appreciation you say she lacks. – Aunty Lisa
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