I am a 30-year-old woman and have been married for two years. I hate the fact that my husband is a very close friend to his workmate –a woman. I do not like the idea and my husband thinks that I am just being jealous and failing to trust him. They work together and I fear they may end up dating. – Loyce
Dear Loyce
You need to trust your husband my dear, unless he has given you a reason not to trust him before. Understand that he is not living in a vacuum. He will always meet other women when he is not with you. Your husband may be in meetings with several women, some who will even find him attractive and smile a lot to capture his attention. You can c never avoid that, unless you lock him in your home.
My point is, what happens at work should end there. You need to appreciate that your husband needs to have a good relationship with other women at work for his job to be done. It will not mean that he is having an affair. Show him that you trust him and he will respect that trust and live not to betray it. But if you show him that you do not trust him with other women, he may not see any reason to remain faithful.
If he says they are friends at work you need to learn to respect that. Their friendship should not cross the line of your home if you are not comfortable with it and you can actually discuss and agree that with him. You can as well have a male friend and it will not mean that both of you are in love. Trust him and worry less about something you are not sure of. – Aunty Lisa
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