She out-smarts me

Dear Aunty Lisa

I am a 25-year-old man who is head over heels in love with a woman the same age as me. I am worried and concerned about people’s theories, which are true in our relationship. They say women mature faster than men. My girlfriend sometimes out-smarts me. I don’t mind her being intelligent, actually she inspires me. But my worry is whether she will not disrespect me later in life? – Joel

Dear Joel

I am happy you appreciate your intelligent woman without feeling inferior to her. There is nothing wrong with her giving you sensible advice here and there, that is the whole idea of relationships. You want someone to argue with, someone to give you ideas when you need them. I don’t think she will disrespect you for that. You just need to find out whether she really respects you now – and if so, I don’t there will be a reason for her to change later on. In general I believe women respect men who allow them to be themselves and do not try to control them or keep them down. – Aunty Lisa

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