Dear GraceyI went for HIV testing and the results came out positive. Now there is a guy who is crazy about me, he is 6 years younger than me. I told him about my status and he insists he still loves me. Should I remarry or move on alone. Im so afraid of him dumping me in future. Im so confused please help. – Confused
Dear Confused
There is no problem in your boyfriend insisting he still loves an HIV positive woman. That is his decision and at his age (26) he must be mature enough to know what he has chosen. As for you – you need to thank God for finding you true love and stop wondering why he is loving you.
But my biggest concern though is that you have been married and divorced twice already, your last marriage was a very bad experience and Im sure with that trauma you suffered you will not be able to handle any more heartbreak or abuse.
You need to make sure that your man believed you when you told him about your status. The whole situation will turn ugly if he feels that he was tricked into marrying you unaware you are positive, or if he took it as one of those crazy jokes. After that you need to make sure that he is mature enough for you in terms of decision making and reasoning capacity though we all are tempted to believe love is all that matters.
Men do not like women who are much more intelligent than they are as a wife. Your reasoning capacity may even be too much for him if he is not mature enough; then you will end up being his source of advice always.
Men have that sensitive male pride, which they dont like hurt and women hurt it in so many ways unaware. Showing them that you know more than they do – even when you do – can easily hurt them and sometimes get them fall out of love. – Gracey
Pregnant and confused
Dear Gracey
Im 24-year-old single mother. I have been single for three years now. Last January I broke up with a man of my age whom I dated for two years after he told me that his mother doesnt like me. But I have just found out that Im pregnant for him and Im confused. What do I do? – Anonymous
Dear Anonymous
I understand what you are going through. Its sad that on top of being a single mother with all those responsibilities, now you get pregnant and are left all alone again.
The man you are pregnant for dumped you because he didnt want to disappoint his mother and not because he no longer loved you. It was a bit unreasonable for him to do that. When we are in love, we need to follow our hearts – despite having to consider what other close people think of our relationships.
I am not blaming you for the break up, but at times like that you need to stand and fight for what you believe in. You should have stood by your man, stay stuck on him and if he loved you as much as true lovers do, Im positive he was going to fight together with you. But now the question is: how do you fix it especially when you are pregnant by him?
Your major challenge is that its been two months since you broke up. I dont know how you have been communicating with him but a lot can happen in two months. He may have moved on and for him to accept back a pregnant ex-girlfriend will not be an easy decision for him.
If you are one principled lady, one who has always been faithful to him and one he always believed in, he has no reason not to believe you. You dont deserve being alone. Make every experience in your life educational. You need to treat whatever led to you being a single mother as a mistake that you learnt from and avoid any casual relationship that will leave you alone and pregnant.
Go sit down with your ex and tell him about the baby you are carrying, have him plan the way forward for you all – or at least for the child if he is so dependent on his mother that he wont follow his heart. Good Luck! – Gracey
No longer in love
Dear Gracey
I got married three months ago but Im afraid my husband seems to be losing interests in me already. Our love is no longer as it was before we married. Sometimes I feel like Im left all alone in this marriage and he is no longer in love with me.
He is an accountant by profession. Sometimes he brings his work home and he is just a workaholic. I never knew this until now. Im always telling him not to bring work home as if he is married to his job – but the more I do that the more I seem to upset him and he works more.
I love him so much and wish he loved me too. Is marriage the mistake that I made? Why is he falling out of love? – Felly
Dear Felly
I commend you for loving your husband the way you do. I feel sad that you are going through what you are experiencing so soon after marriage.
You may wonder how relationships change once people get married. How people get to know the real person after the I DOs.
Some men believe that working hard and providing for their family is a way of showing love. It works with other people but that does not seem to work with you. But you need to accept him and know that he is working hard for the sake of your future.
On a day that you are both relaxed, play a game with him. Give him a piece of paper and ask him to list things that show him that you love him and vice versa. Have him list the ways he thinks he shows love to you. You could also just talk about it instead of writing – depending on what type of person he is. You may be surprised by the answers he will give. I think he loves you so much but he is just not showing you in a way you expect him to.
Men do not like to be pressured about anything. Your relationship may improve if you start to show an interest in his work. When he gets home from work, its good for him to find you waiting for him, and showing that you are happy to see him. Dont look at the watch the moment he walks in. Remember to keep loving. – Gracey
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Hello my name is Julia I want to give a testimony about my HIV virus that was cured by a great spell
caster. Since last 4 months I have being a HIV AID patient. I never think I live long again and am so
grateful about him DR.Ukpoyan who cured my HIV AIDS last 3 weeks. I was in a great pain so I told
one of my best friends; he told me that there is a great spell caster that can cure my HIV. I asked her if
she had his email, she gave me his email, I emailed him he talked to me and he perform the necessary
rituals and he told me that after two weeks I should go for a test. Which I did, when the doctor told me that am now a HIV negative I couldn’t believe myself I went to see another doctor the result was still
the same, I was human on planet earth, so I emailed him and thanked him. Please if you are having a
similar problem please visit him/contact him on Dr.Ukpoyanspellhome@gmail.com
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
HELLO, i want to share this wonderful testimony to the world as a
whole in case there is some body in this same situation. i was
diagnosed of HIV in the year 2009 until i meant testimony online by a
woman with name Anita about a man called Dr Okoro , i was not too sure
if it was real until i contacted him my self . I thought that there
was never a cure for my deadly ailment but Dr Okoro told me that his
herbs could cure me, and then i decided to give him a try, he then
told me that once i start taking his herbs, that it will only take me
some days to be cured, i believed him and took the herb with faith.
after he gave me the medication, i took it and i was feeling some new
signs in my body and i decided to go for a test and the result stated
that i was HIV negative, i was very happy and even called my pastor
and told him about it, i am very happy that i am now HIV negative and
i am also happy that i will not be celebrating this Christmas as an
HIV patient as i have did for the past 4 years, so help me say a very
big thank you to Doctor Okoro for saving me from the hands of the
deadly ailment. if you are also in this type of situation and you are
seeking for solution, seek no more for you have received the right
information you have been wanting for a very long time in this type of
issues you are very free to contact Dr Okoro today through his private
email: Drokorotemplt@gmail.com or call him on his mobile number :
+2348051785597. i strongly believe that he will help you out just as
he did mine, stay cool and God bless Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year
in advance.
email: DROKOROTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM
I am Mrs Joyce Patrick from Canada, I have great joy in me as i am writing this testimony about the great man called Dr.Ekpiku When my lover left me i never taught that i will be able to get him back after all he has put me through, But i am so happy that after the interference of Dr.Ekpiku i was able to get my lover back after 24hours and i can proudly to say, that who ever need help in getting there lover back should contact Dr.Ekpiku on these contact details below Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com for proper understanding of what i have just witness. And i promise that he will help you as he help me.