Multiple affairs

Dear Auntie Lisa

I am 34 years old and have been married for eight years. I work at the same company as my husband and we travel together to and from the office. I recently found out he is having multiple affairs with different girls at work. I find it so painful to go on day by day knowing my husband is cheating on me with my colleagues. I don’t know what to do. Please help. – Mrs D.D

Dear Mrs D.D

That must have been a terrible shock for you. I am so sorry. But first of all, you need to clarify whether he is indeed having affairs with these women. Don’t just believe rumours. If he is, suggest going for counselling from a professional or family member. A change is urgently needed. You are at risk of getting a sexually transmitted disease (including HIV) if he is sexually entertaining women without using protection. Both of you need to establish the reason for his infidelities. Is he feeling insecure working with you? Are you in a senior position to him? Do you earn more? – Auntie Lisa

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